How can I get my boyfriend to stop treating me like this?

My boyfriend talks to me very rudely, and every time we have a problem he blames me and it's my fault. And when I try to confront him about it, he gets even more angry and theres nothing i can say that wont make him get even more mad at me. I just need some advice on what to say to him, becuase I can't take it anymore. I've tried so hard to explain this to him but he always gets angry and blames it on me, and just ends up yelling at me and bringing up other sh*it that isn't relevant, or he'll hang up on me. How can I confront him about this and have him listen like a mature adult?